Leave the Diva at Home

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On an upcoming trip, I’m going to be roughing it.  I will truly be sacrificing some comfort.  I will be…

traveling without a HAIR DRYER!

Don’t judge.  This is seriously a sacrifice for me.  If my house were burning down & I had to choose between my hair dryer or toothbrush, I’d grab the hair dryer.  I have short, bi-polar hair & I just never know what mood it will be in from day to day.  I look terrible in hats, so I can’t cover up a bad hair day.  Hence my dependence on this large unwieldy tool.

I rarely travel with a hair dryer because I purposefully select lodging that has one.  Conversations like this can occur in my household:

Eric: Clare, I found the most amazing cottage on its own private island, with its own private butler & masseuse & it’s half price right now!

Clare: But does it have a hair dryer?

So why am I choosing to go sans hair dryer this time?  Two reasons: I fell in love with a hotel in Fussen Germany that meets all my requirements (except the hair dryer) AND I was recently chastised by my loving husband for being a diva. Here’s how that played out:

My husband coaches a 10-year old traveling baseball team & we recently went on a week-long tournament trip to Alabama.  At the end of one day, hair dripping with sweat, face covered in melted sunscreen & clothing stuck in crevices I don’t want to be aware of, Eric & his brother say “let’s go outlet shopping!”  I did not respond gracefully & they were not amenable to my suggestion to back track 45min to our condo & shower before going anywhere.  I told them I’d be miserable & not want to try on anything looking & feeling like I did.

Which is when my supportive spouse took me aside & said “you look wonderful right now, stop being a diva.”  And that is the moment I realized I sounded like a Kardashian.

So, I of course went shopping & bought a boat load of clothes just to prove I could enjoy my sweaty natural self & NOT be a diva.  😉  Moral of the story: no one really cares what we look like except us, & when we let go of that worry we become MUCH happier & more pleasant to be with.  So if you want to be the travel companion that everyone wants to travel with, leave the diva at home.

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