For those who may not know it, my cohort MaryR & I founded a group called the No. 1 Ladies Hiking Society in 2016. We’re now up to 399 members (just can’t seem to reach 400), & it’s time to plan a big group trip. But we’re an adventurous group, willing to explore ANYWHERE, so where to go…hmmm…
The Three Wise Women
I said goodbye today to a very special woman. She made up a triumverate we called “the Three Wise Women.” These three women shaped who I am today and will continue to influence me in the future, even after they are gone.
My earliest memory of Sr. Justina is her dressed in a full clown costume. This is probably not my actual first memory (since she babysat me when I was a newborn), but I grew up with photos of her in clown costumes so it’s the image that always pops into my head. And it’s an apt image, because no one could embody a better image of childlike joy than Sr. Justina. To know her was to experience pure joy & unconditional love. At her funeral today, her gift for hospitality was mentioned & it was spot on! Even in her later years in a tiny simple apartment, Sr. Justina always invited people to visit & she made sure to have a cup of coffee & “something for the sweet tooth.”
Some people start out joyful but lose their sunshine when faced with adversity — that was NOT Sr. Justina. Twenty years of cancer & grueling pain never took the twinkle from her eyes or the mischievous Cajun humor. I didn’t get to spend much time with her as I became an adult, but the rare moments I had with her were enough to teach me the grace of suffering. And the influence she had on my mom & godmother somehow transferred to me even when she wasn’t part of my daily life. The Three Wise Women showed me what friendship should look like & that aging gracefully isn’t about anti-wrinkle cream — it’s about becoming the woman God designed us to be.
To my Mom & Nanny who said goodbye to their best friend today, I love you & I hope for many more years of your wisdom.
Solo Female Travel Resources
“Traveling solo does not always mean you’re alone. Most often, you meet marvelous people along the way and make connections that last a lifetime.” – Jacqueline Boone
At the presentation I did in October for a women’s conference, I promised to share some resources for women who want to travel but don’t have anyone to travel with. Ladies, this is by no means a comprehensive list but it’s a good start. There are TONS of informal groups & tour companies that specialize in travel for women & they all have pros & cons. If you opt for a tour company, expect to pay around $2000 or more (guided trips are always more expensive). If you need a more affordable option & are willing to put in a little work, look for travel clubs (search online by the region you want to visit OR look on sites like Meetup.com).